Most cultures have a regular time where thoughts turn to thanksgiving. Often these come from religious traditions, but that is not universally the case. More frequently these sentiments arise from thankfulness for community. When we reflect on the challenges of facing life, our thoughts turn to family, friends and even neighbors known and yet to be known. We share with them a meal, a sporting event, a parade – something unique for the time, but calling to remembrance times before and creating hope for shared times in the future. We share the joy of belonging and the desire to remain – at least for a time.
At this time of thanksgiving, as I think about this past year, I am struck by how wonderful life can be and, of course, how it can be a challenge. Unlike last year, this year was not much of a financial success. Oh well. This year brought unexpected joys, accomplishments and insights. I met wonderful people. People who touched my life so deeply that when I now think of them it brings tears to my eyes. I reconnected with many people I had lost contact with or with whom my relationship had grown staid and cold. I have seen beauty that leaves speechless. I have been given a few glimpses – so rare and profound – into my own soul. This has left me both profoundly in awe and inconsolably sad. In awe that life can be so rich and beautiful and so sad that it can be, at times, such a horror.
Let us heartily rejoice together when times are good. Let us hold hands in loving silence through times of unspeakable trouble. Let us find the true meaning of ourselves in both.
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